Updated: Aug 27
There are times in a person’s life when they may feel stuck. They may be in a situation that is making them unhappy, however they are lacking the motivation or extra push they need to help them create positive change in their life. Sometimes they are not even sure what it is that they want.
If a person is unclear as to what their goal is, they should take a look at each area of their life. Those areas may include: Family, friends, health, career, finances, physical location, hobbies, and their love life. They can begin by determining on a scale of one to ten (ten being the best) how they feel about each of those areas of their life. After they determine which area has the lowest number, they can then think about what they can do to make that area a “ten”.
Once a person has determined what their goal (or dream) is, they can then begin to focus on it by determining what steps they need to take in order to get there. One thing I consider is that even though a person may not be happy with their current situation, it was that situation that launched their dream. So, it is important to appreciate where a person is in their life, which helps to create a positive mental attitude and aptitude. This attitude can help to move a person in the right direction and newer heights rather quickly.
Also, it is a good idea for a person to surround themselves with other people who have similar goals and dreams. This support system can add more motivation, and can provide even more ideas which will help them to reach their goals. Determination is very important, because the person who did not reach their goal is usually the one who gave up before they reached the “finish line”. (Consider it would be 31 years after President George Washington signed the Patent Act in April 1790, before Thomas Jennings became the first Native American inventor to receive a U.S. patent for his dry cleaning methods). Sometimes, a person simply needs to keep trying and not give up.
For someone who could use some extra motivation, a personal life coach can help them to find out what they want, and can help inspire them to get there by providing positive visualization, which helps people to reach their goal more quickly by using the power of the subconscious mind. Using this technique can really help a person to create positive change in their life.
P.E.A.C.E (P-roper E-ducation A-lways C-orrects E-rror), being mindful that knowledge is only told by way of "PEACE".